Rebecca<p>Since my last <a href="https://tech.lgbt/tags/introduction" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>introduction</span></a> was in January 2023 - a lifetime ago - it feels like time for a new one.</p><p>I'm Rebecca, a 43-year-old <a href="https://tech.lgbt/tags/queer" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>queer</span></a> woman and software engineer in Fort Collins, <a href="https://tech.lgbt/tags/Colorado" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>Colorado</span></a>. I'm married and parenting a sweet, also-queer 12-year-old kiddo.</p><p>I post a lot about my <a href="https://tech.lgbt/tags/transition" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>transition</span></a> journey:</p><p>* My egg cracked slowly from 2020-2022<br>* I started <a href="https://tech.lgbt/tags/HRT" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>HRT</span></a> on 7/28/2023<br>* Came out publicly as <a href="https://tech.lgbt/tags/trans" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>trans</span></a> on 3/28/2024<br>* Had <a href="https://tech.lgbt/tags/VFS" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>VFS</span></a> on 5/28/2025<br>* Have bottom surgery scheduled for 1/26/2026</p><p>Also posting about <a href="https://tech.lgbt/tags/parenting" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>parenting</span></a>, queer life, <a href="https://tech.lgbt/tags/neurodiversity" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>neurodiversity</span></a>, and whatever my current hyper-focus is. Expect <a href="https://tech.lgbt/tags/train" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>train</span></a> and <a href="https://tech.lgbt/tags/aviation" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>aviation</span></a> stuff and a TON of selfies - some <a href="https://tech.lgbt/tags/NSFW" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>NSFW</span></a>, especially <a href="https://tech.lgbt/tags/kink" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>kink</span></a> (<a href="https://tech.lgbt/tags/shibari" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>shibari</span></a> <a href="https://tech.lgbt/tags/rope" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>rope</span></a> are special joys). I use CWs for these.</p><p>I work in <a href="https://tech.lgbt/tags/healthcare" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>healthcare</span></a> <a href="https://tech.lgbt/tags/tech" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>tech</span></a>, where I help connect at-risk patients with faster care. I travel a lot for work and never say no to a window seat.</p><p>Here for queer joy, friendships, connection, and thoughtful conversation.</p><p><a href="https://tech.lgbt/tags/ActuallyAutistic" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>ActuallyAutistic</span></a> <a href="https://tech.lgbt/tags/QueerFedi" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>QueerFedi</span></a></p>